For the adoptee

We offer children groups, adult groups and counseling for adult adoptees.

Children groups - conversation groups for adopted children

Participating in a group course for adopted children and young people can contribute something very special, as the children and young people have the opportunity to reflect on themselves and their peers.

The group includes two group leaders, and each meeting will be about a special theme with whatever the children/young people are preoccupied with here and now. Thoughts, feelings and experiences are exchanged with others who have a start in life that resembles each other. The group leaders are also PAS counselors.

A parent must register a child/young person for the waiting list by filling out the following application form:

Waiting list for children groups 

Who

Adopted children below the age of 18. We prioritize setting up groups for the oldest. We put the groups together with a maximum of 2 years' age difference between the children in a group.

Where

We continuously start up groups around the country based on the age and the geographical location of the children or young people who are on the waiting list. We have no way of predicting when a group for your child will be possible. This depends on the children's age and place of residence.

When

A group consists of up to 15 meetings and each meeting usually lasts 2-4 hours. A group meeting is usually held approximately every 14. day with the exception of the 

summer holiday. As far as possible, the group meeting takes place on the same day of the week in the afternoon or early in the evening.

Parental involvement

A group meeting will be created for the parents, so they can support the development that is initiated in the group.

The last group meeting will often take place approximately half a year after the group has finished. Our experience is that this meeting provides a joy of reunion and clarifies the development that has taken place for the children and young people.

After the end of the group, it is possible for each individual family to have a individual session with the group leaders. However, this requires that the individual family have counseling hours available.

How many

A group has about 8 participants and two group leaders.

Pre-interview

Before we start a group, you and your child will be invited to an individual interview with the group leaders. The conversation will last half an hour.

Price

The group sessions are free.

The fine print

As a parent, you cannot receive individual counseling from the group leader. This only applies during the time period over which the group is on going. You are welcome to receive PAS advice from another adviser during that period.

There is a confidentiality obligation in the group. This means that the group participants and leaders do not pass on personal information and personal statements to others outside the group.

PAS-Counseling for adopted adults

We offer PAS counseling for adults who are adopted. We also offer group sessions for adult adoptees.

The PAS system offers individual PAS counseling by professionals with specific expertise within the adoption field. The counseling is targeted adult adoptees with adoption related challenges. You can apply for individual counseling by filling out our application form. Every application are assessed individually and it can take up to approximately one month to assess your application.

In cases of individual counseling the hours granted must be used within six months counting from the time of the granting. Any hours that is not spend within the six months will expire.

If you are granted counseling, you can freely choose and book any of our PAS counselors. When at the counselor it is important to bring the granting declaration.

You pay a 100 DKK fee per hour directly to the PAS counselor.

Group sessions for adult adoptees

The group sessions normally compile to approximately 8 adult adoptees meeting up for 3-4 hours, in a total of about 15 times. There will be exchanged thoughts, feelings and experiences as adoptees in the sessions. Furthermore, there will be discussed relevant topics.

To sign up for our adult group sessions you have to fill out a form in order to get on our waiting list. A group will be created when we have enough attendances in your area of living. Because of these conditions, it is therefore hard to estimate the waiting time to start a group for you. Participation in group sessions are free of charge.

Who

Adopted adults of any age above 18 years. We do not consider the birthplace of any adoptees.

A group session contains around 8 participants and 2 session leaders in every meeting.

Where

We start groups regularly all over the country and place the attendances in groups considering geography, age among other things. We also focus on whether the adoptees have become parents themselves.

When

The group sessions contain 15 meetings with each meeting lasting for 3-4 hours. The meetings will be scheduled the same weekdays if possible and often during the afternoon or evening.

Pre-interview

We will invite you to a meeting with the two group leaders before starting a group.

Payment

The group sessions are free.

Conditions

It is a condition that you are willing to listen to all group members and that you are willing to share your own thoughts.

During the sessions, it is possible that you will feel some frustration. You might feel that it is impossible or feel there is not enough time to discuss your specific situation. We therefore recommend that you have someone to contact after the sessions.

We recommend that you have had PAS counseling before participating in our group sessions or that you are having individual counseling concurrently.

The group is confidential and none of the participants or group leaders can share the personal information or statements made, outside of the group.

PAS-Counselors

We strive to make the waiting time as short as possible when contacting and requiring the PAS-counselor you wish.

If you experience too long of a waiting time regarding your next scheduled PAS-counseling, you are always free to choose any of our other PAS-counselors.

Find PAS-counselors / Adoptionsrådgivere